question of the day

HOW CAN YOU TELL SOMEONE ONE THING & DO THE EXACT OPPOSITE????

responsiblities

as a child you always wish to get older, to an adult and do your own thing. make your own money. get your own job. but its nothing like you wished it to be.

i love my life but i never thought i would be working for not only me but my little man ( little brother). i had to grow up early cause if i didn't i would've fallen for the tricks satan plays. but luckily i have knowledge and i overcome all obstacles that get in my way. I've graduated from high school; I have a job. I'm in college. I help take care of my little brother.  I help out around the house. I help pay bills. I get what I need. I get the necessaries my little brother needs with a few treats. It's a great feeling that I know how to be an adult and I can take care of business. I know bills have to be paid and I work to make sure they do. There's always food to eat. I might not be rich and get everything I want but i get what i need & I'm making it. & not struggling. that's the joy of life.

whats the definition of a parent?

what is a real parent? someone who give birth to you? someone who only hits you up on holidays or birthdays if even that? someone who promises you things time after time but none of it ever happens? someone who post stuff on the internet because your doing so great and they want to take credit as being your parent like they were there? i really don't understand what a PARENT is. cause the title means nothing to me. im only 18 and i do things on my own; I'm so tired of the drama, I'm so tired of the fakeness. only parent i recognize is the one in GRANDPARENT. those are the people that have actually been there, and helped me through it all. to you my name is ASHLEY. not daughter. not sweetie. not anything but Ashley. you didn't help me get where i am. you never called. you never gave a damn. & don't say people prevented you cause I've lived in the same house my whole life, house number has never changed, you knew what schools i went to. never made an attempt. knock it off. & i been done trying to care. i just don't care anymore. i don't want to build a relationship. & its sad when your everything. your all. your best-friend turns their back on you & disappears. a child should never feel betrayed by their parent but hey that's life huh??? its sad when your kids don't even know each other like that, having them on Facebook and knowing there name don't mean a thing. this is for my so called parent(s).